Make this year a phenomenal success.
You are a powerful, creative and unique person.
You can do anything. You are strong.
At this point in the year, I urge you to reexamine your goals.
Write them down today again and decide again to go confidently in the direction that they point, despite the distractions and diversions that may present themselves.
Beware of new and exciting opportunities that are not in line with your goals. Your success depends on what you decide to neglect.
As you aim to excel this year, I believe that you are taking your goals seriously, especially those goals that have to do with money, career or any bold entrepreneurial ventures that will propel you to the top of your field.
This is just a reminder to keep your eye on the prize.
If you are at all like most people, including 90% of my patients, you tend not to take your relationship goals as seriously as you take your financial goals.
Before the year runs away, I urge you to take a bold look at your special love relationship and re-examine your relationship goals.
If you do not have any clearly written love relationship goals for the year, its not too late. Please take a moment to consider your relationship and write down some goals right now.
One client with outrageous business goals was doing well and making great financial strides, when he realized that he and his wife were drifting apart. The most important relationship in his life was failing as his business increased.
At that point he came to see me and I gave him 3 strategies to follow, and his relationship is now the crown jewel of his life and his success is even greater than it had ever been.
Before I give you my 3 points let me remind you that no amount of success in your finances or career can make up for failure in your home.
Here’s what to do:
1. Make yourself AVAILABLE. Book 3 special appointments with that special person and really be with them. Spend time. Where are you going to find the time? 80% of what you do is irrelevant to your success, so focus on the 20% and give some quality time to your relationship.
2. Be more AFFABLE. Adopt the goal to be nicer this week. Be grateful for everything. Refuse to criticize. Back away from any dissent or argument. Give 3 compliments every day for the next week. Speak your love and attend to the feelings of the special person in your life, as you have never done before.
3. Develop your relationship skills. Read some ideas on how to enrich your relationship for 10 minutes everyday for this week. Get a book or an article, or an audio program that will help you to focus on learning more about how to conduct a superior love relationship.
Practice these 3 strategies. Make them a part of your day and your success will soar. Nothing can boost your financial success like being in sync with the one you really love.
Respect,
Ken